Quote of the Month

"Be not the slave of your own past. Plunge into the sublime seas, dive deep and swim far, so you shall come back with self-respect, with new power, with an advanced experience that shall explain and overlook the old." ~Ralph Waldo Emerson

Monday, March 30, 2009

Going Green, Made Easier

"Going Green" can be difficult and expensive! But here are some really great, easy, inexpensive solutions...


After my 2 dogs broke my composting bin last summer, I gave up trying to compost. Mostly because composting bins are really expensive, and I couldn't see spending all that money on something my dogs were more than likely going to break again! So, I was thrilled when my friend Paula told me that she made her own composting bin for around $20. She emailed me this link:


http://simplemom.net/how-to-make-a-compost-bin/


I'm hoping to make one this week. I'll let you all know how it goes.
And by the way, our garden is in full swing. Yesterday, Avery and I planted green beans, cucumbers and cantaloupe seeds. A couple of weeks ago we planted our tomatoes, potatoes, onions, eggplant, peppers, broccoli, cabbage and carrots. Next weekend we will plant our squash, and our garden will be full.
Our Garden, March 29

And here's one more thing worth mentioning. Last week, at my Mothers of Preschoolers group meeting, our guest speaker was the wife and co-owner of a local organic gardening center. She was giving away door prizes, but I didn't win one... :-( But I asked one of my friends who did win a door prize if I could see what she got. She handed me a bag of something called Bug-B-Gone. It's a completely safe and non-toxic insect repellent. The guest speaker's husband is the owner and creator of Ron's Organics, and over several years he came up with his own tried-and-true concoctions for common household problems... bugs being one of the biggest problems. The bag smelled wonderful. It didn't have a chemical smell at all. So I turned the bag over, and the list of ingredients boggled my mind: ground cinnamon, cloves, corn, thyme, and wintergreen oil. That's it... She told my group that she puts the Bug-B-Gone in a bowl under her sink in the kitchen, and it keeps those tiny black ants away. She also puts some in a pretty bowl in her bathrooms, to use like a potpourri, and it keeps the roaches away. She also puts it in old knee-high stockings, and throws a couple of them into her attic to keep all sorts of pests away. She said it works for up to 4 months, and a 1 pound bag costs only $3. Needless to say, I can't wait to go out to their store to get some. We've been so reluctant to use any chemicals in our house and on our lawn because Isaac is so extremely sensitive to them. But then, of course, we get more bugs... But this seems like this could be a great solution. They also sell a blend of cedar wood chips that you sprinkle along the outside perimeter of your house and in your lawn, and it prevents bugs from coming into your home. Oh, and at my meeting we also made an all-natural Febreeze (room deodorizer/linen spray), using tap water and 15 - 20 drops of lavender essential oil that you can buy from any health food store... It smells great!


We were also given a list of all-natural household cleaners that you can make yourself using other essential oils:


All Purpose Cleaner: Add 6 drops of lavender essential oil and 6 drops of rosemary essential oil to 1 pint of water in a spray bottle. Lavender oil contains an all-natural anti-bacterial property.


Furniture Polish: Add 10 drops of orange (or lemon) essential oil to 2 teaspoons lemon juice, and then add 2 - 3 drops of olive oil.


Bathroom Cleaner: For tile or linoleum, add 50 drops of tea tree oil to a gallon of water in a bucket. Tea tree oil contains an all-natural anti-bacterial property.


To remove mold or mildew: Add 3 - 4 drops of tea tree oil to a rag or sponge and wipe directly on the surface. Let it sit for several minutes. Rinse and repeat if needed.


Disinfectant Spray: Add 10 drops of grapefruit essential oil and 10 drops of lemon essential oil to a pint of water in a spray bottle.


Glass Cleaner: Mix 10 drops of lemon, lavender or rosemary essential oil with 1 cup of white vinegar and mix with a small amount of water (1/4 - 1/2 cup).


Laundry: When washing sheets and pillowcases, or anything else that dust mites thrive in, add 25 - 30 drops of eucalyptus oil to the wash water for each load. Laundry comes out softer and fresher.


While in the dryer, simply add 5 drops of your favorite essential oil to a damp washcloth, and toss it into the dryer with your clothes for an all-natural dryer sheet.

So Very Different

Isn't it funny how your kids can be so alike, but so different? I see so many similarities between Samuel, Avery and Isaac, and yet they all have their own unique personality! When Samuel was a toddler, he loved playing with flash cards. He would organize them and carry them with him everywhere he went. He had several different sets of flash cards. And even though he stopped playing with them when he got to the age of 5 - 5 1/2, I've held on to them.
On Saturday, I was doing some spring cleaning in the kid's closets when I came across the big basket full of flash cards. I was so excited to show them to Isaac because Samuel was around 2 1/2 when he started showing an interest in them. But Isaac could have cared less. I tried many times to engage Isaac with the cards, but he kept tossing them aside. And then it occurred to me that he was much more interested in playing with the animal figurines I was taking out of Samuel's room and had piled up on the table. Long before Samuel was born, when I was running the day care out of our home, every time I would take the kids to the zoo I would buy them each one of these animal figurines. We got quite a good collection of animals over time. Samuel's had them in his room since before he was born, but he's never really shown too much interest in them. So I was finally prepared to take them out of his room and give them away, but before I could do that, Isaac grabbed them all up and started playing with them. They are now his new favorite thing to play with. He carries as many of them as he can in his arms, and then proceeds to take one in each hand and pretends that they are fighting with each other. He wants to take them everywhere he goes and refuses to put them down, even when it's bath time. It reminded me of Samuel with those flash cards, wanting to take them EVERYWHERE.....

Hey, have you seen any wild animals anywhere?

Now, I can honestly say that this must be something inherent within the lad, because I've never shown him how to make animals fight each other. He just knows how to do it... And that reminded me of the time I snapped this picture of Avery at the age of 3:She would carry her baby dolls around on her hip like that, and I never once showed her how to do that. She just knew how... It could simply be the difference between boys and girls, but I think it's more than that. It's like I always tell my kids... just like you have brown eyes and I have blue eyes, and he has brown skin and she has black skin, and she has curly hair and he has straight hair, and you like green beans but he doesn't, and you walk on both legs but she needs a wheelchair, and you want to love on your baby dolls but he wants to chunk them across the room, and you wear glasses but none of the other kids in your class do... we are all so very different. But being different from each other doesn't make one thing wrong and the other right... just different... We are all so very different from one another. And it's these differences that make this great big world that we live in such a special place!

And by the way, I'm still going to hang on to those flash cards...

Wednesday, March 25, 2009

Turn, turn, turn...

"To everything (turn, turn, turn) there is a season (turn, turn, turn), and a time to every purpose under heaven."

I found myself humming along to this classic song on the radio in the car today, on my way to pick up the kids after school. The lyrics "A time to plant, a time to reap" made me think about my vegetable garden, and all of the beautiful gardens Hector and I saw this past weekend. For my 37th birthday, Hector took me to Tyler. This was a surprise weekend get-away that he planned for me, on his own I might add. We stayed at a lovely B&B. On Saturday we shopped until we dropped in the nearby town of Gladewater. Gladewater is home to over 3 dozen antique stores, all on their Main Street. Then on Sunday we drove the Azalea Trail in Tyler. If you don't know what the Azalea Trail is, it's basically hundreds of homes along several streets throughout Tyler, where the home owners have very eccentric, well-manicured, and extremely gorgeous gardens full of azaleas. It was beautiful, and my pictures do not even begin to do them justice.


Here's My Garden on Planting Day...

I realize just how pitiful my vegetable garden looks, especially when I look the Azalea Trail gardens... But hey, my peach tree looks good! Look at all those pink blossoms!


And Here's The Azalea Trail Gardens...



But you know what? There's more lyrics to that song I was humming today... There's a part that says, "A time to laugh, a time to weep; a time to dance, a time to mourn; A time to embrace, a time to refrain from embracing; A time to speak, and a time to keep silent."


Well, this afternoon seemed like a perfect time for me to weep, mourn, refrain from embracing, and keep silent. You see, after I picked up the kids from school, Samuel asked me in the car if I would want to go up to the school tomorrow morning to hear him make the morning announcements. With great excitement in my voice I told him that I would absolutely want to go to the school tomorrow morning to hear him make the morning announcements. And then Samuel asked me why none of the other moms would be there, and why it would just be me. And I explained to him that probably the other moms work outside of their homes, but that I would definitely be there! Wouldn't miss it for the world! And then these crushing, blow-to-the-heart words came from the mouth of my 7 1/2 year old, "But I don't want you to go. None of the other moms are going, and it would embarrass me."



I would most definitely define that moment as a time to weep, mourn, refrain from embracing, and keep silent... Needless to say, my heart was broken. And then tonight as I was dropping him off at choir practice, the final blow to what little hope I had left came when he pulled away from my grasp as I was trying to kiss him goodbye. I knew this time in Samuel's life would come, I just never dreamt it would come at the age of 7 1/2. I was thinking more around the age of 13. But it's here, whether I like it or not. He cares more about what his friends think of him than his mommy. Sob, sob, sniffle, sniffle.


But all hope is not lost just yet. Tonight at bedtime, he asked me to sing to him and say a prayer with him. And just like every other night, after we were done saying our prayer, he gave me a kiss on the cheek and I kissed him back. And then he asked me to say goodnight to all of his stuffed animals that he likes to sleep with. "Goodnight Frosty, Quiggly, Rowdy, Henry, Sponge Bob, Bald Eagle, Hungry Caterpillar, Bear, Monkey, Bear (there's 2 bears), Clifford, Marty and Goodnight Samuel. I love you Big Guy, and I'll see you tomorrow morning." And then he said, "I love you too, Mommy." Ah, you see... Maybe I have lost something with Samuel when it comes to showing him affection in front of his friends, but at home he's still my Big Guy and I'm still his Mommy! :-)


Turn, turn, turn...

Wednesday, March 18, 2009

Big Outdoor Spring Break Family Fun Camping Adventure

Well, we made it back from our Big Outdoor Spring Break Family Fun Camping Adventure!!! We all survived the trip, and we even managed to have tons of fun in the process. We went camping with 2 other families, so there was a total of 14 people (6 adults plus 8 kids). We camped at our friend's (Mandy and Kasey) family farm. Their family owns 60+ acres with a pond. At night, it was amazing to see all of the stars in the sky. And in the morning, tons of beautiful birds woke us up to the sound of their magnifiscently orchestrated songs. They have a cabin there, but we all slept in tents at night. But that cabin sure did come in handy during the day for showers and cooking! And it was beautiful too. It truly was a memorable trip, and we hope to be able to do it again next year. Hope you all enjoy the pictures. And please leave comments on here. We'd love to hear from everyone!
Our home away from home (aka, the family tent)...

Isaac was "helping" Hector set up the tent.

The front porch of the cabin.

Samuel and I were just relaxing on the porch while the men got everything situated.

Then Hector and Avery relaxed for a bit on the porch.

Inside the cabin.

The pond, just outside the cabin in the back. I loved these windows!

Looking out at the pond, from inside the cabin.


Avery caught her first fish! And then she proceeded to catch 14 more... She caught the most fish, by far, of anyone there.

Samuel caught 8 fish.

Even I got to share in the fun of catching fish! The other fish I caught was around a 20 pound bass, but the camera batteries were dead. By the way, I'm joking about that bass....

The boys played a game of baseball. Samuel got good at hitting the ball. He was getting frustrated at first, but he stuck with it and started hitting the ball a lot!

And then some of the girls decided to play a game of catch.

Some of the kids, playing on the tire swing.

The girls, posing by the tire swing. My friend Mandy is sitting on the tire swing, and her daughter Jami (6 yrs. old) is behind her. My friend Jennifer is wearing the red and white striped shirt, and that's her daughter Abby (10 yrs. old).

The boys just could not take a serious picture... Our friend Carl (married to Jennifer) is on the far left, then there's his son Nathan (8 yrs. old). After that is Samuel, striking quite a silly pose. Then there's Jackson (10 yrs. old) and Jace (8 yrs. old) is hidden (oops)... Their dad Kasey is wearing the ball cap. Then there's Isaac and Hector on the right.

There's all the big kids! Wish it wouldn't have been so dark...

They had a huge sand pile. Isaac got Filthy, with a capital F!

My friend Jennifer's little boy Nathan. He was so good with Isaac. He held his hand while we were getting the camp fire going.

And what a fire it was!

Sitting around the camp fire, making smores.

Our friend Carl putting a hot marshmallow on Avery's smore.

They had a golf cart, that we all got to drive around. The kids thought it was so much fun... Truth be told, so did the adults!

Hector and Isaac, going for a walk down the country road.

The 5 Aces, Spring Break 2009

Saturday, March 14, 2009

Fancy Avery

Last night, Avery went to a birthday party for a little girl who's in her Girl Scout troop... a Fancy Nancy Party! The mom hired a make-up artist to paint the little girls' faces, and they also got their nails painted. Avery had a butterfly painted on her face. Then she had her nails painted pink, with tiny white flowers put on her fingernails and big toenails. Avery had a really fun time getting pampered, and she has now told me that she wants a Fancy Nancy party for her 6th birthday. We'll see about that... As we were leaving the party, Avery was given a gift bag complete with a tiara, feather boa, glitter sunglasses, nail polish, stickers, a feather poof pen, necklaces and bracelets.









Avery has been Fancy-fied!

Friday, March 13, 2009

100 Random Facts About The 5 Aces

It's my understanding that when "bloggers" reach their 100th post on their page, they need to post a list of 100 facts about themselves and/or their family. Well, that time has come! So, in celebration of this milestone, I humbly present to you "100 Random Facts About The 5 Aces." I hope you enjoy reading it, and that you learn a few new things about our family. Hector and I truly enjoyed coming up with this list!

100. Hector and I have known each other for 60% of our lives.

99. When we were trying to start our family, Hector wanted 1 child. I wanted 6.

98. We tried for 5 years and 7 months to start our family before I became pregnant with Samuel.

97. Samuel was 5 years and 7 months old when Isaac was born.

96. Hector and I have visited 22 US states, or 44% of the country. We are hoping to make a trip to South Dakota and Wyoming this summer to see Mt. Rushmore and Yellowstone. We also plan on visiting Nebraska on our way up there, which would bring our total to 25 US states visited, or 50% of the country.

95. When I was pregnant with Samuel, Hector came home from work one evening and asked me if I wanted to go out to eat. When we came home after going out to dinner, I realized that I'd left a pot of beans cooking on the stove, and it was on fire. Our house was full of smoke and the dogs were howling to get out of the kitchen. Thankfully, no real damage was done. But that's not the only thing I caught on fire while pregnant with Samuel. I also caught 2 toaster ovens on fire, once while cooking a corn dog and once while cooking a tostada shell. I simply went right off and forgot about them. I also set our microwave on fire by leaving popcorn cooking in there too long.

94. Hector regularly asks me if I know how to swim, despite the fact that I've told him several times that I do know how, and he's seen me swim!

93. I've had 19 different jobs in the past 18 years. Hector's had 8 different jobs in the past 19 years.

92. When I was in college, I slammed my finger in the closet door while vacuuming. I woke up with the vacuum still running, and realized that I had fainted because of the pain. Hector still thinks this story is very funny, for some odd reason.

91. Hector and I vacationed in Washington, D.C. exactly 1 year before the terrorist attacks of 9/11.

90. We found out that I was pregnant with Samuel upon returning home from that vacation.

89. We tossed around a lot of different middle names for Isaac. We came up with the name Elan by taking the E from Hector's name, the L from Samuel's name, the A from Avery's name and the N from Dianna. When we looked up it's meaning (friendly), we knew it was the perfect middle name for our son.

88. At the age of 5, Samuel could say the ABCs backwards without hesitating to think about what letter came next. He could also spell words backwards without hesitating.

87. Avery's first memory is from an incident that occurred when she was only 18 months old. She recalled the incident for the first time when she was 3 years old. She had never mentioned it to us before then, and we had never mentioned it to her before then either. It wasn't anything big, but she remembered it as if it had just happened!

86. Avery is a very detail-oriented person. She can recall what a person was wearing the very first time she met that person, right down to the color of their socks.

85. When Samuel was in Kindergarten, he memorized the first and last names of all 20 children in his class, in alphabetical order. He also memorized all of their birthdays.

84. Hector gave me a dog for my 24th birthday. We adopted the dog from a Dallas shelter when she was 8 weeks old. We named her Molly. Molly stayed in her puppy stage for 3 years, or at least that's the excuse we gave everyone for her behavior. One time, she jumped straight off of the top of the second story staircase at our duplex, down to the concrete ground below. Molly's been making our lives crazier for over 11 years now.

83. Our second dog was abandoned by her previous owners. They had named her Sissy. She was 6 months old when we got her, and she was not well. We spent a lot of money to get her well, and we renamed her Maisy. Maisy's still a sickly little dog, but we love her. Maisy celebrated her 9th birthday this past October.

82. I became pregnant with Avery when Samuel was only 14 months old.

81. Avery was due to be born on Samuel's 2nd birthday.

80. My favorite Psalm is 27:14... "Wait on the Lord: be of good courage, and he will strengthen your heart. Wait, I say, on the Lord."

79. Hector and Avery can curl up the sides of their tongues, making a U-shape. That's a little trick we like to call a "taco tongue." Samuel, Isaac and I can not make a taco tongue.

78. Hector can twist a cherry stem into a knot with his tongue. I can not.

77. I could not snap or whistle until I was in my early 20s. Hector taught me how to do both. Avery learned how to snap at the age of 5. Hector taught her how...

76. None of our children were born with birthmarks. Samuel got a birthmark on the bottom of his foot around the time of his first birthday. Avery and Isaac both got a birthmark on their stomachs, in almost the same exact place that I have a very similar looking birthmark. Hector calls them our "ketchup stains." I also have a birthmark behind my right ear, and so does Samuel now. Hector does not have a birthmark.

75. I tend to be far too critical of myself. I also second-guess myself all the time.

74. Hector loves fruit and his favorite dessert is mixed berry cobbler, but he does not like fruit pies.

73. I hate ironing and will avoid doing it at all costs.

72. Hector has a fear of horses and will avoid them at all costs.

71. Hector's favorite drink is sweet tea. My favorite drink is a Mint Cafe Mocha from Starbucks. Samuel's favorite drink is apple juice. Avery's favorite drink is orange soda. Isaac's favorite drink is whole milk.

70. My wisdom teeth have never come in.

69. I can not swallow pills whole.

68. Hector has never had a surprise birthday party. I've had 2 surprise birthday parties, but I found out ahead of time about both of them. So technically, I've never had a surprise birthday party either.

67. Every time we finish using a bottle of medicine for the kids (like Children's Tylenol), Hector saves the tiny plastic measuring cup that it came with. He stock piles the tiny medicine cups. He used to do the same thing with the plastic scoops that came with powdered baby formula. He saved dozens of those scoops. Every time it gets to the point where I can no longer close the drawer because all of the tiny plastic cups are getting in the way, I throw a few away, knowing that Hector will replace them soon enough with more tiny plastic cups. Why does Hector save these free tiny plastic things? I guess he figures just in case there's ever a shortage of tiny plastic medicine cups, we'll be covered!

66. Hector is a picky eater. The list of foods he dislikes is quite long; pickles, mustard, anything with vinegar in it, beets, turnips, radishes, collard greens, tomatoes, green beans, bell peppers, cucumbers, okra, avocados, blue cheese, Brie, Swiss cheese, pastrami, ginger, rye bread, cabbage, brussels sprouts, alfalfa sprouts, sushi, and the list goes on and on. I am not a picky eater. The list of foods I dislike is quite short; nuts, peanut butter, seeds, grapefruit, beets, turnips, and radishes.

65. Hector likes to mix all of the food on his plate together. I like to keep my foods separated.

64. Hector prefers to eat the corner pieces of a cake first. I prefer to eat the middle piece first. Hector's favorite part of a cake is the icing, but I prefer the cake itself. Hector likes sweet tea but I like unsweetened tea. Hector likes black coffee but I like my coffee sweetened. Hector prefers vanilla ice cream with caramel topping but I prefer chocolate ice cream with hot fudge topping. Hector is the yin to my yang.

63. When I was working at a college day care, one of my coworkers was giving away gerbils. I brought 2 home (1 black and 1 white) and shortly thereafter realized that 1 was male and the other was female. Within just a few short months we had more gerbil babies than we could count. Did you know that a female gerbil can give birth every 6 weeks? Some life lessons you have to learn the hard way. I gave away gerbils to everyone I knew, and to every pet store within a 30 mile radius. Finally, overwhelmed by our thriving gerbil community, I found a pet store about an hour from our house that was willing to take them all to use as snake food. In tears, I handed over the entire cage to the pet store employee. I called it heartbreaking. Hector called it the circle of life.

62. Avery can not tell the difference between enchiladas, lasagna, and tostadas. In her mind, they're all the same thing. Likewise, she does not know the difference between breakfast, lunch and dinner.

61. My pregnancy with Isaac was the first time I went into labor naturally. And it was also the first time my water broke naturally. Only 5 - 10% of all pregnant women have their water break naturally during labor.

59. I went past my due date by 2 days when I was pregnant with Samuel. My doctor told me that if it was possible for a woman to be dilated to a negative 1, that's what I was.

58. Avery was in a breech position up until the night before she was born. I was sitting on the couch, and saw her flip to a head-down position. It was the weirdest thing to see my stomach move like it did!

57. The name Avery means counselor. Her name seems very fitting for her personality. Can't you just picture her as an attorney some day? Her middle name is Grace, which refers to the unmerited love of God.

56. When we asked Samuel and Avery where they wanted to go on vacation this coming summer, Avery said Disney World and Samuel said South Dakota to see Mt. Rushmore. And since our family has a vertically challenged 2 year old, South Dakota got 4 votes and Disney World got 2 votes (Isaac voted for both).

55. Hector likes to take empty candy wrappers and tie them into knots of all different shapes and sizes. So does his father. Then Hector likes to put them in his pockets so that they all wind up in the lint trap of the dryer, or he'll stuff them down in between the couch cushions so that I find them when I'm vacuuming.

54. Samuel taught himself sign language from a poster his Kindergarten teacher had hanging up in the classroom.

53. Two summers ago it rained so much here that the "critter" population in our yard was booming. That summer, Avery captured and released over a hundred frogs in our yard.

52. I have learned that God always answers prayers, but sometimes the answer is "No" or "Wait." I have also learned that sometimes it is our greatest struggles in life that bring forth our greatest blessings.

51. Last summer, our okra plant grew to over 8 feet tall.

50. On occasion, Hector wears a pair of boots to work that he bought back in 1992.

49. Avery was speaking in complete sentences and having conversations at 18 months of age. She was using a fork at 15 months of age.

48. Hector's lifetime dream is to become a roady for a band that our kids are in. My lifetime dream is to attend culinary art school and open a catering business.

47. Avery once ate 2 bowls of cream gravy at a restaurant, with a long tea spoon. Nothing else, just gravy... We have the pictures to prove it!

46. I've never gotten a speeding ticket in Texas. The only ticket I've ever gotten was in Lousiana on our way to New Orleans to celebrate our 10th wedding anniversary.

45. Samuel, Avery and Isaac have close to 1,000 books all together.

44. To figure out which direction he's heading, Hector says "Never Eat Soggy Waffles." This helps him to remember North, East, South and West. He learned that little trick in the 3rd grade. Whenever I need to spell the word beautiful, I say to myself "Be A Utiful girl" and that helps me to remember the correct order of the vowels. I don't know when I learned that trick, but I just taught it to Amanda who's in 4th grade, and she spelled it right on her last spelling test!

43. If you put an empty glass down in our home, it will mysteriously make its way into the dishwasher, faster than you can ask "Where did I set my glass down?"

42. Last summer our garden continuously produced hundreds of tomatoes at a time from May through October. We ate our last 2 tomatoes on January 18.

41. Samuel has 3 tiny moles on the top of his right hand, and 1 mole on his left knee. Avery has 1 tiny mole on her back. Hector and I both have dozens of moles. Isaac does not have any.

40. When Isaac was 22 months old, he could correctly identify over 3/4 of the letters in the alphabet. He still struggles to correctly identify the letters b and d, i and l, u and v.

39. Samuel gave up the bottle on his own when he was 10 months old. Avery gave it up at 11 months. We were finally forced to take Isaac's bottle away 2 weeks ago.

38. Hector thinks I am a slow driver. I know that Hector is a slow driver.

37. Hector loves banana and watermelon flavored candy. Those are my least favorite candy flavors.

36. I have 33 first cousins and I honestly don't know how many second cousins I have, but it's around 20. Hector has 11 first cousins and 5 second cousins. Samuel, Avery and Isaac have 8 first cousins.

35. Samuel and Avery know who our last President was. They know who the candidates were in the last Presidential election, and they know who is our new President.

34. When Hector was 5 years old, he ran straight through a sliding glass door. He still has scars on his knees from the incident.

33. Hector has been to the ER once in the 14 years we've been married. I have been to the ER twice. Samuel and Isaac have never been to the ER. Avery has been to the ER 5 times.

32. Samuel, Avery and Isaac are 3 of God's most beautiful creations.

31. Samuel, Avery and Isaac know that God loves them.

30. Hector's favorite movie is Rudy. My favorite movie is The Wizard of Oz. Samuel's favorite movie is Kung Fu Panda. Avery's favorite movie is The Care Bears. Isaac's favorite movie is The Mickey Mouse Club House.

29. Our cat was a stray. She hung out on our front porch for over a year before I finally gave in and fed her. We named her Miss Kitty, but Avery (who was only 2 at the time) pronounced it Lid'l Lee. The name stuck. Lidl'l Lee weighs 17 pounds.

28. Hector can go from being in a deep sleep, to being showered, dressed, and ready to leave the house for work, all within 15 minutes. It takes me approximately 5 hours to get ready. :-)

27. I use chapstick all the time. I have 1 tube in my make-up bag, 1 in my purse, 1 in my coat pocket (sometimes it's in my pants pocket), 1 on my nightstand, and 1 on my computer keyboard. It stays right there, on top of the "Num Lock" key. On more than one occasion, I have been driving somewhere, and realized that I did not have a tube of chapstick with me, and I have turned the car around to go back home and get one.

26. Hector and I have made entire meals from the free samples given out at the grocery store.

25. Hector and I want to travel to Venice at least once in our lifetime.

24. Isaac's first word was "Hi." Samuel's first word was "Dada" and Avery's first word was "Baba."

23. Avery can always think of another question to ask.

22. Samuel loves playing video games, and he's quite good at them. I can play Miss PacMan from start to finish without ever losing a turn.

21. One night, as Hector and I said good night to each other, Hector started snoring almost immediately. I waited to see if he was joking. When I realized that he was really snoring, I woke him up and told him that he literally fell asleep and started snoring within 2 seconds of saying good night to me. He always tells me that he needs to see if that's some kind of world record, but he never has.

20. Hector wants to invent something in his lifetime. His ideas for inventions include a car dashboard piano (to play along with the radio while you're driving), and a woman's necklace that holds chapstick inside of it (so that no man ever has to help his wife hunt down her lost tube of chapstick ever again)!

19. Isaac is the only 1 of our 3 children to suck his thumb. Samuel and Avery both preferred a pacifier.

18. Samuel was left handed up until the age of 4, when his preschool teacher told him to write with his right hand. By the time I realized what was going on, it was too late. In Samuel's mind, he was supposed to be right handed, and there was no going back to being a lefty. Avery and I are both left handed.

17. Hector and Avery have black hair. Samuel, Isaac and I have brown hair.

16. For as long as I can remember, I have wanted to enter and win a contest where I would get to run through the aisles of a grocery store, throwing into a shopping cart as much as I could within 5 minutes. I used to love watching that game show on t.v. called Supermarket Sweep, but it disappointed me that the contestants did not get to keep the food...

15. I am a competitive person. I am also a crafty and thrifty person. I pride myself on finding a really good deal.

14. One of my favorite snacks of all times is Funyuns dipped in Bean Dip with Orange Soda to drink. It's a lot better than it sounds! One of Hector's favorite snacks of all times is Corn Nuts and Big Red soda.

13. As a child, I used to make up silly little songs about what I was doing. Avery does the same thing.

12. Samuel, Avery and Isaac say "Please" and "Thank you" and "Bless you." I get a little thrill every time I hear my kids say those words, and I didn't ask them to do it!

11. Hector's favorite food is Sesame Chicken. My favorite food is enchiladas. Samuel's favorite food is pepperoni pizza. Avery's favorite food is bean and cheese tostadas. Isaac's favorite food is spaghetti.

10. When I was pregnant with Samuel, we were planning on naming him Benjamin, Alexander, or Max. Some really good friends of ours had just adopted a little girl, and sent us an announcement in the mail. On the announcement it had the Bible verse "For this child we have prayed, and the Lord has granted what we asked of him." 1 Samuel 1:27. Hector asked me what I thought about the name Samuel, and I told him I felt like it was the name we'd been searching for the entire time... It was the perfect name for our son.

9. I love quoting other quotes. I like the thought that someone else, maybe even long before my time, felt the same way as I do about something, many years later.

8. Avery used to say "averycado" for avocado, "tee la la" for tortilla, "Old MacDonalds" for McDonalds, and "hangabuga" for hamburger.

7. Hector still knows how to make me laugh.

6. I truly dislike wearing make up and shoes. If I could get away with it, I would never wear either one of them every again.

5. In the 14 years we've been married, Hector and I have owned 7 different vehicles.

4. The name Isaac means laughter. It has proven to be the perfect name for our Isaac. He is definitely the comedian of the family.

3. One day, I want a home with a huge front porch and a chef's kitchen. Hector wants to have enough land so that he can raise a few pygmy goats. Maybe even some chickens...

2. On several occasions in my life, while in the course of a normal conversation, I have been able to guess numbers accurately. Like the time I was at work while living in Austin, and my friend Monica asked me to guess how much money she was short in her checking account, that caused one of her checks to bounce. I guessed the number right. If memory serves, I think it was 17 cents. This happens to me all the time, but if I hesitate to think about the number, I get it wrong. Just last week, while in the car on the way home from picking up the kids after school, Samuel told me that they were learning about money in school. He told me that he pretended to buy something with a dollar bill, and then his friend gave him change back. And he asked me to guess how much change he got back. I said, "26 cents." And Samuel responded, "How did you know?" I can also do this when it comes to guessing which elevator in a building is coming down first. I don't know how I do it. I just do!

And the #1 random thing you should know about our family is...

1. We aren't perfect, but we love each other deeply, from the heart.

Thursday, March 12, 2009

Sing as if no one is listening!

Last night, Samuel, Avery and Amanda had their Church Choir Spring Concert. Everyone did great! Samuel's choir sang 3 songs; Father, I Adore You; Jesus Is Our Friend; and In the Lord, I'll Be Ever Thankful. A few times, I caught Samuel smiling at me during the songs. I could tell he was enjoying himself. For the finale, they combined Samuel's choir and Amanda's choir. They sang 2 songs together. And it just so happened that Samuel was dead center, right in front of the microphones. I saw him looking over at me and he gave me a big grin, as if he was thinking, "How cool is this? I'm right in front of the microphones!"
Can you see Samuel, standing right behind the Choir Director? He's wearing a burgundy shirt. Amanda is to the right of the Director, wearing a navy shirt.

But, I must tell you that Avery was the hit of the night! When her choir went up to sing their 2 songs (Oh, How I Love Jesus and He's Got the Whole World in His Hands), Avery was truly "feeling" the music. Not only did she stand up there and sing her heart out, but she also did an interpretive dance to go along with the songs. Mind you, this was not a planned part of the performance. This was Avery's own addition. She was swaying back and forth, and swinging her hips to the beat. It was all I could do to not laugh because it truly was precious. Every child in her choir did hands movements to He's Got the Whole World in His Hands, but Avery was the only one dancing! She was getting into it! Afterwards, I had several people come up to me and tell me how much they enjoyed Avery's enthusiastic performance. But the sweetest comment came from my friend Paula, who told me that while she was watching Avery sing she was thinking to herself that there just couldn't be anything more delightful to see, until she looked over at me and saw the smile on my face. I was so happy and proud that my daughter felt that comfortable in church. And she was enjoying herself so much while making a joyful noise unto the Lord, that she knew that she could be herself and just sing her heart out. It reminded me of the expression, "Always sing as if no one is listening, dance as if no one is watching, and live each day as if it were your last." Yeah! Avery's got it right. I wish we could all feel so comfortable!
Amanda's choir sang 3 songs, and Amanda did a great job. I'm thrilled that she gets to come with us and be a part of this. After all of the choirs performed, everyone in the congregation sang Amazing Grace together, and it filled my heart with joy to see all 3 kids (Amanda, Samuel and Avery) singing the words without the use of a hymnal. They've learned the words in choir...
Other than that, we are getting ready for Spring Break next week. We plan on going camping with 2 other families. Big outdoor fun!!! We're all really looking forward to it.

Oh, and one final thing. Our church's Preschool Minister asked me to be the Assistant Director for the newborns through 2s for Vacation Bible School again this summer. I very graciously accepted.

Wednesday, March 11, 2009

Food for thought...

Happiness is the place right between too little and too much.

Given that thought, I'd like to share this recipe with you all because it's probably the easiest and best tasting new recipe I've made in a while. It wasn't too heavy or too filling, but it satisfied our hunger. And it's easy to make a low-fat version. I served it over rice, along with English peas. I will also include that recipe here. If anyone tries these, let me know what you think!

CROCK POT CHICKEN AND MUSHROOMS

Wash 4 boneless, skinless chicken breasts, and trim off the extra fat. Brush lightly with 2 tablespoons melted butter (or olive oil). Sprinkle with salt and pepper and place in the crock pot. Sprinkle 1 envelope of dry Italian salad dressing mix over the top of the chicken. Cover, and cook on low for 5 - 6 hours, making sure to turn the chicken every couple of hours to ensure even cooking. One hour before serving time, in a medium saucepan combine 1 can cream of mushroom soup (can substitute low fat soup), 1 block (8 oz.) of cream cheese cut into cubes (can substitute low fat or fat free cream cheese), and 1 small onion, diced. Cook and stir until smooth. Pour into the crock pot over chicken, then add 1 cup chopped mushrooms. Cook an additional 30 minutes on low. Serve over cooked rice or noodles.


ENGLISH PEAS

Blanch 1 pound peas just until tender. To Blanch: Fill a medium sized pot with salted water, and bring to a boil. Add the peas, bring the water to a boil again, and cook for approximately 3 minutes. Drain the boiling water from the peas and dump the peas into a bowl of ice water. Let sit in the ice water for 2 - 3 minutes, just until cool.

After blanching the peas, drain the ice water and return the peas to the pot. Over medium-low heat, toss the peas lightly with 2 ounces (1/2 stick) melted butter, 1 teaspoon chopped tarragon, 2 green onion stalks (chopped), 1 teaspoon dried, chopped chives, 1 1/2 teaspoons lemon zest, 1 1/2 teaspoons chopped thyme, and 1/4 teaspoon salt.